I’m not a piercing fan. Some of it looks nice but some looks too far gone. I’ve seen stretched ears where the flap of skin is dry and pulled tight. It turns my stomach. The little bit of ear skin left at the edge looks like thin leather about to snap. I can’t deal with people who have this – my focus is on their ear rather than what they are trying to tell me. I’m not against body modification, I just don’t want to see it when it looks painful or like it’s about to require stitches/ surgery to fix it.