Originally written for HubPages sometime in 2013. What does the idea of being a princess mean to you? Have you written about a princess (in a fantasy world or the modern world) before?
If you want to be treated like a Princess begin by acting like a Princess with poise, grace and pleasant manners.
The word Princess comes with so many labels, from a spoiled brat to a graceful lady. Assuming the Princess you want to be isn’t the spoiled brat, how do you become the lovely fairytale Princess admired by so many?
A real Princess isn’t a dainty little thing. She stands on her own feet and makes the world (or at least her own local world) a better place. Contribute an example of how to behave better so others will see and do the same themselves. Keep your poise, don’t get flustered or impatient too easily. Use your best manners and be polite – treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.
Still, a Princess is not a doormat. She stands a little above, on her pedestal. Not so high that she can’t join in and be apart of everything going on in her kingdom but still, she holds herself to high standards and she is proud of what she is and what she does.
Don’t rest on your laurels or think you know all you need to know. Take lessons in etiquette manners and ballroom dancing too.
A Princess with some education can make a career out of being a Princess. Become an etiquette consultant, a protocol specialist or even someone working with the Embassy of your own country or in a foreign country (if you enjoy the travel).
How to be a True Princess (or at Least Feel Like One)
- Decide on your kingdom. Your room, home, or your neighbourhood?
- Who are your subjects? Your friends and family?
- Communicate well. Don’t speak too quickly and use a smooth, calm tone of voice.
- Dress like a Princess. Be proud to look pretty and elegant.
- Resist buying cheap, wait until you can buy quality clothing, furniture and accessories rather than finding yourself with something which doesn’t suit you.
- Wear nightgowns to bed so you can sleep like a Princess too.
- Design your bedroom, your most personal space, to be your Princess oasis.
- Find an especially beautiful mirror which lets you see your whole Princess self: a refined, classy woman.
- Enjoy flowers, even if they are artificial, they will brighten up your space.
- Take care of your hygiene, keep cleaned, trimmed and well groomed.
- Work hard, do your best to set a good example and show how wonderful a Princess can be.
- Work to keep a good attitude, be happy and your kingdom and subjects will be happy too.
- Keep your standards high when it comes to your own decorum and good behaviour.
- Keep your mind open, be tolerant of other opinions, view points and ideas.
- Be generous with your time and energy – give to charity when you can and volunteer to help.
- A Princess attends functions, dances and balls. Make sure you are out to see movies, go ice skating and other events you enjoy.
- Practice good posture, standing straight and tall with your shoulders slightly back.
- Practice making an entrance and exit, not just from the room but vehicles too.
- Practice how you sit. A Princess keeps her knees and feet together, especially when she’s wearing a skirt.
- Walk with a light step rather than clumping around or dragging your feet.
- Don’t hold onto negative things and emotions for too long.
- Do things that make you happy, follow your bliss as they say.
- Love yourself. Be kind to yourself.
- Be grateful for what you have and thank people who help you. Show appreciation.
- Create your own Princess crown (or tiara).
- Learn how to gracefully curtsy.
- Experiment and develop a Princess laugh.
- Learn how to give a royal wave when you are on parade.
- Host a Royal Event to show off your beautiful gown, your crown and your graciousness.
- Read fairy tales. Write and draw your own story about your kingdom.
- Be kind and generous to others and be true to yourself.
- Have a fancy tea party and invite friends and other Princesses too.
- Smile, bestow your smile generously for your subjects and others, even those who are not in your kingdom.
- A Princess can be excited, exuberant even, but she does it graciously and with poise.
- A Princess is never a poor loser or a gloating winner.
- Sometimes being a Princess is all in the details: watch your fingernails for dirt and make sure your shoes are not scuffed.
- Princesses respect the Earth. Don’t litter.
Be a classy Princess, never become snobby or act as if you’re better than everyone else. Don’t expect special favours but be thankful when you get them.
How to Curtsy
Begin by respectfully lowering your head.
Hold your skirt out sideways just enough to give you room to bend your knees.
Slowly lift your right foot and place it behind your left foot.
With one foot forward, and your upper body straight, bend your knees. Lower your eyes.
Rise up smoothly and slowly.
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