Originally posted to Sex Kitten.net.

I have thought about taking it on the road, when it comes to a BDSM relationship. I thought about staying in a hotel overnight and the things we could or could not do. I don’t agree with people who play in public. People in general should not become part of any BDSM play. It is more than just kissing or fondling in public and those are not things I would do either.

I don’t think there is something wrong with BDSM. I don’t think it should be something to be ashamed of, kept secret or hidden. However, that does not mean we should be shoving it in front of people regardless of their own feelings and sensibilities. Have respect for other people and keep your play sensitive to those around you in public places. You may have “the right” to play but there is also the right for everyone else not to be exposed to your play or be made to feel uncomfortable from it.

So, if you can find something like a private hotel, motel or a bed and breakfast which allows and even encourages private BDSM and sex play, then why not make a plan to use that service? The room is designed as a play space, with extras available or included. Privacy is assured.

Would you make it a business yourself? It would be very much a niche, a smaller niche than catering to the general public. You might have some interesting clean ups and repairs to do. You may have to keep track of people you don’t want back as clients. But, you could also build up a list of local BDSM or swingers or fetish lovers who use your service and through them and local munch groups you may have a reliable and loyal clientele.