Gracie, here in Adult BackWash, wrote quite the newsletter (Savvy Sex). It ended with "No matter how they buck, stay in that saddle!" She was not writing about horse riding either. That last comment was my favourite part, it brought all kinds of interesting images and ideas to my mind.

Later, when I was all toasty warm, I started to think... how much do you tell your friends about your lovers?

Would you tell his real penis size? Probably, penis talk is always good for a laugh. In spite of what men seem to think, women are not (usually) looking for huge cocks. I mean, it's not like you have unlimited space in there. Huge cocks are good for erotic stories and fantasies but not real life. No woman wants to ask for stitches "down there". So, get over it penis carrying people of the world.

Not that we want something small either. But, if there is enough for us to grab onto and squeeze you'll do. I don't mean hand squeezing, just in case you got confused.

So, what else would you get chatty about? Would you tell if he is a sloppy kisser? Does he leave you wet in all the wrong places? Or does he do that certain something with his tongue that just makes you wild. Would you share the technique or keep it between you and your lover?

Would you tell if he feel asleep during sex or did something else embarrassing? Would you tell if he got too rough one evening? Would you tell if he had an erotic dream about his Mother? Maybe you would talk about something new he wanted to try and how it did or didn't work out?

Maybe and maybe not. Some things are personal to you and your lover and the snug, intimate little world created between the two of you. At least while it lasts. Once he's gone you can get started on the tell all book!

Seasons Greetings to your friends and lovers,

Laura