Pretty Much my Final Word on Fetlife
*I'm not looking to meet anyone here just keeping a profile up for the sake of having a login on the site.
For me D/s (domination and submission) are fun. There should be humour, laughter, creativity and exploration. In a Domme/ sub relationship if the woman is playing by his rules, his program, etc then she should at least be getting paid for her time, or allowed to bring along a book to read for the really boring parts.*
Too many times I've given men a chance and ended up with nothing or less than nothing (hope lost). For anyone who is sincere about wanting to meet someone the worst place to spend your time are the very sites which should be your best resource to find someone. The sites are packed with trolls who either want to screw around online only or want to find a woman to screw, physically without actually bothering to know her name or anything else about her.
I don't want to be a woman screwed. If he wants online only he can stay there. If he wants to screw in person he can get a doll at a sex shop. I'm not willing to become a non-person so some walking dickhead can get a screw or screw around.
Yes, I am somewhat bitter. Mostly I'm just annoyed and out of patience with selfish, little men. Sadly, that seems to be pretty much all you find online. I have met very few who could prove to be otherwise).