If you really could ask your lover anything what would you ask him/ her? I know what I would ask. I'm not going to type it here. But I can think of one thing right away.

The question is... why don't you ask him/ her?

In my case it's only a matter of distance. I will ask him this next week when I see him in Ottawa.

It is interesting though... I wonder what he might want to ask me but hold back on asking. Why do people hold back? Isn't it important to know? Doesn't everyone do better once things are out in the open?

So why the holding back? When you think about it, keeping things held back or unasked just makes everything harder and messier. Keep it simple!