What are some of the more daring things you would like to do to your lover?

Tonight I added a link to a web store that sells extreme restraints, including straight jackets. Most of the jackets are leather and look too polished and expensive to be taken seriously. I like the old fashioned one, the plain white institutional looking one. How would it be for him to wake up in that one morning? Would he be angry, turned on or think you've completely lost it?

It would be interesting. But, there are other things to explore. Beyond the rape fantasy so many women consider there is so much out there. It's intimidating until you remember he is just another human being, not slut maestro 2003. Just some guy who happens to like you and hopes to 'get some'.

If you are comfortable with him why not try something you've always wanted to try? Should you tell him first? I guess that would depend on the danger to him from whatever you want to do. I'd say forewarned is a good thing if he might become injured but the element of surprise can be priceless. For both of you.

Anyway, what would you really do with him if you had complete freedom to do anything? Don't consider his feelings, weaknesses, or your own uncertainties. Just set your inhibitions free and go wild. Write about it and email it to him. Dare you!