The CFNM fetish is a turn on for me. But, the cuckolding thing leaves me wondering what kind of man would really be turned on by this. I couldn't or at least wouldn't take part in a cuckolding fetish if I really cared for the man in question. Maybe it's the wallflower in me.

Anyway, the CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male) thing is something I would enjoy doing. When I was looking for more about it online I found it on sites about male strippers. I guess it is comparable to that scenario. But, not the same. Male strippers are on a stage and there is a 'touch me not' kind of feeling to it. Sure, they gyrate around and let you cop a feel here and there in exchange for your dollars, but there is still something inaccessible about the whole thing.

I think there is a lack of interaction. It's too noisy and crowded to really have that connection you get when things are more intimate with some male you know, well enough to know his weak spots.

Besides, those men on stage aren't vulnerable. They're putting on a show, they know how the night will end. But, your poor naked male, off stage, doesn't really know what you have in mind. Sure, he can guess or hope. But, that doesn't mean he's right. Or that he'll get any. When he's the only one naked, maybe bound as well, things are not so easily in his control. I like that feeling, of knowing he is vulnerable and I'm not. I like being the one in charge.

Although, it's also fun to have the tables turned. If he can pull it off.