Something to do on a long, rainy weekend together?

Simple to just write out a list where each number rolled is something sensual. For instance:

1. a tickle
2. kiss on the cheek
3. nipple licking
4. a compliment
5. barely there touch
6. kiss on the lips
7. a long hug
8. light spanking
9. a slow dance
10. strip tease
11. back rub
12. ice cubes

These are just my ideas to get you started. Fill in your own favourite things. (Write down where you hid things should you get distracted and forget later).

Select 12 items to hide around the house unbeknownst to one another and write out your clues. As each one of you find a clue you take a roll of the dice and do the roll, says Beauregard. The possibility of 24 acts of love and lust minimum, what thrill and this does not take into account any of the main events.

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I began to wonder how sex robots would change things for sex workers as I was reading yet another post about female sex robots and their orifices. For men, it seems sex robots are not very different from sex workers, neither are quite human. Beyond the sex worker issue, however, will the availability of sex robots have a big impact on sex work for human sex workers?

I know, people claim men want human interaction. Sex workers say a lot of their job isn't actually sex. I think it's all in your perspective of what is sex and what is not. If you're talking about sex, catering to a client, that's still along the lines of sex. It's not a regular conversation with ups and downs about life, the universe and everything. In spite of what men say, in my experience, they want sex. The human element is annoyingly in the way. A woman can say no. A sex worker might say no, or ask for more money.

Sex robots seem ideal for men in this way.  It's like having your porn and eating it too. Store your sex robot in a closet when you're done, likely they can even be self-cleaning.

• Instead of a paying for phone sex - talk dirty to the sex bot.
• Instead of going out and picking up a sex worker, just pull the sex bot out from under the bed.
• Instead of looking at online porn and paying for it, dress up your sex bot and do whatever you want to it.

What do you think?

I'll admit right off the bat that when I first heard of the concept of a submissive journal I wasn't thrilled. It seemed too ritualistic-like (for lack of a better word) and it seemed like something that HOH's used to force on their submissive partners (example: you must write in your journal after every punishment) which I highly disagreed with. Needless to say, I wasn't a fan.

But the more I looked into the idea, the more okay with it I became. I started looking at the concept of submissive journals more as a way to help the submissive partner and less as a ritualistic punishment, and I started to see the benefits. I've also talked to several who keep a journal (by their own personal choice, not their HOH's) and after they let me know of some of the results they experienced I was beginning to become more on board with the idea. …more

My boyfriend has recently told me he's always wanted a femdom. I keen on doing this for him, but I'm not sure how to go about it. What kind of dirty talk do femdoms use, and would I get him to do anything I want him to do and not things he would want to do for me?

Fake, or not? This is one of those borderline comments. Even if it is comment spam, the question is at least relevant.

First, FemDoms may use a book of instructions but there is no guarantee we will follow them.

That's the difference between being a FemDom (I prefer Domme) or a paid sex worker. Your rules - your way, mostly. Of course, you don't set fire to him or anything extreme you may do in a fit of anger and regret later. You also take his wishes into account.

Dirty talk is a fetish. Do you like it? If so, try it out in reality and see if both of you like it. Maybe it sounded, or looked, good in pornography but doesn't work out so well in actuality. I don't really like dirty talk. I'd have more fun coming up with punishments for a dirty talker than being a dirty talker. But, I would not encourage dirty talk just for the sake of getting "punishment". …more

The BDSM experience is different for men and women, in several ways. Women are more careful about meeting men. Women may be looking for romance and affection, a relationship while men really just want sex. Women tend to get pushed into things they really don't want to do, in order to keep the peace.

I often read people (men) claiming women into Domming are rare. In my experience this is not true. I encounter many women who would enjoy Domming men, if they could find one who meets their needs.

Being a male submissive may not be what you think it is at all

There are very few men who understand what a Dom woman is looking for, what she actually wants. She does not want to be the Dom you see in pornography. If you are looking for a woman to fulfill all your porno fantasies of what male submission should be... pay for it. Professional sex workers will dress the part and read from whatever script you want, do it your way (as long as safety is considered) and give you what you want as you expect to have it. …more