The Bad Girl Bloggers seem to have retired. The name is getting passed around as a sex blogger award but the site has no posts since 2011. Maybe that's just as well. I get tired with the attitude that women who talk about sex are bad girls.

On one hand, it's kind of fun to think of yourself as wicked, in a sexy way. I don't like being judged that way however. As if any woman who thinks about sex, likes sex, or has sex is doing something wrong. You can't be a good girl sex blogger. Nice girls don't write a sex blog.

So every woman writing a sex blog must be a bad, wicked creature. Except, we're not. Sex bloggers are just people.

The original list came from Body + Soul. I picked out those which interested me. Have you tried making a sexual bucket list? I think it should really be a sensual bucket list so you could enjoy more sexual things without a partner too.

• Plan a surprise bedroom picnic. Fill your basket with goodies that delight. Make sure you have batteries, and include toys for two, not just vibes for her alone. Pull one bedroom picnic treat out at a time and take turns with each other.
• Tantric breathing. -- Breathing, hearing and feeling each other's breath creates intimacy and arousal between you.
• Restrict your or your partner's movement or senses.
• Fulfill a fantasy.
• Have cybersex.
• Make penetration forbidden. - Light a candle and focus on foreplay and sexplay in whatever way you want until the candle burns out. Only then is penetration allowed!
• Caress each other in unexpected places.
• Give a prelude teaser. - Take the initiative.
• Indulge with a scalp massage.
• Don't just French kiss. - Use shallow kisses to stimulate his lips with your tongue and teeth, his lips have thousands more nerve endings than in his mouth.
• Keep the lights on.

The little man is a turn on for me. Not being a midget, just little, tiny even. You can find a lot of macro fetish photos with giant women but what I like are tiny, little men. Tiny enough to fit into my pocket. So, this man love doll would be interesting but not small enough.

They say BIG things come in small packages and the Midget Man Inflatable Doll from Pipedream is no exception! Just add air and this pint-size party animal will pump up his pleasure-pole and rock your world! Don't worry that he's tiny enough to fit in your pocket - this meaty munchkin is stocky, cocky and hung like a horse! He's giving new meaning to a Low Blow!

Source: Midget Man Love Doll | the naughty boutique

If this were racist or sexist how many people would be protesting? Yet, is it a problem really? "Persons with disabilities" have sex too. Persons without visible disabilities are recreated as sex dolls. All those social issues and do-gooding get confusing at times.

The real question is - How do Wookies type with all that hair on their fingers? Once you get past that go ahead and read the questions and answers Kilted Wookie posted for this distinguished award in blogging neatness. To follow are the questions I answered when it was my turn and last - the questions and nominees I've passed this award along to.

1. How did you come across your blogging persona?
2. What inspired you to write your first blog?
3. What is your greatest unfulfilled fantasy/dream?
4. What has blogging taught you about yourself?
5. How many "real life" people know you are a blogger and how did it make you feel when you discovered they knew?
6. Lights on or off?
7. What do you normally wear in bed?

Source: A Real Neat Blog? | A Kilted Wookie Writes...

How did you come across your blogging persona?

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From Gracie on SK: Should you wish to participate, here are my relatively random questions:

Whipped cream in a can, non-dairy topping in a tub, or ala mode? (And, yeah, we're talking sex play here, not a topping on the kind of pie you'd get at a diner.) Elaborate. wink

To be honest I cringe at the idea of sticky stuff on my skin in that way. So I'd be none of the above. But, if he were to pester me about it, he would be the one wearing the ice cream.

So, you're a sex blogger, or at least a blogger not afraid to be here and respond to such questions... If you're in a serious or committed relationship, which came first: the blog or your relationship? If you're not in a serious relationship, one day you might be; when and how do you fancy divulging your blogging vice?

I'm not in a committed relationship. I tend to tell all - I'm pretty horrible at keeping secrets. So, I'd already have him reading my blog by the time things got in a committed way.

Would you rather be a superhero or a villain? Why?

A villain by far. I'm already known for being "the nice one" among family and friends. Do you know how limiting that is? Yes, I am nice, I respect others, I help others... and so on. But, if I could let go of all that I would LOVE to be the villain. Likely that's what a lot of the attraction of being Dom is. I can feel like I'm dangerous, or at least not so nice.

What's worse: marketing your blog or marketers contact you for freebie posts at your site?

I don't mind marketing my site so much. I do things my own way. I read what others say we should do and then I decide to take them seriously or not. People asking for freebies gets annoying because they don't show any care or respect for what I'm doing. They offer junk, irrelevant junk, mindless and meaningless praise and they even try spinning it all by telling me what a great favour they are doing me - letting me have free content for my site.

What's the worst/rudest/nosiest question you've ever been asked that you refused to blog about? And will you answer it now? wink

I have no idea. I usually answer any question. Even something kind of shocking at first will get me thinking and next thing, I've written a whole answer inside my head (if not in the blog too). 

Source: In Which Am Tagged & I Grudgingly Respond | Sex~Kitten.net