Do you like your lover's cock?

Do the balls hang low or keep out of the way?

Does his cock penetrate you deep enough make you feel good?

Does the thickness rub you the right way?

Or, would you really rather just go ahead and use your vibrator/ fingers/ other tool of choice?

It's kind of nice that cocks come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Makes one think god really is a woman after all. Who else but a woman would consider a woman's needs and desires when deciding on male anatomy?

Men seem to be fixated on big dicks. Sure he might not have any style, technique or finesse... but he does have a big tool. That's all he really needs, right?

Sorry, but no. For women, sex is as much in the mind as it is in the body. Maybe more so as most women have body image issues. I think we have to feel sexy before we can be sexy. A big dick won't make a woman feel sexy, just in case you wondered.

But, I think a woman does have some cock preferences in regards to size, shape and firmness. When riding one does have to make sure they have the best mount for the job.

Originally posted to Adult BackWash: Friday December 27, 2002

I have a cold and I'm really tired. But, I'm still thinking about the mechanical man. Mostly all the benefits of having a mechanical (electronic?) man around the house. Not just the standard things like opening tightly screwed on jar lids. But the things a man should really be handy for like back rubs late at night when you can't sleep. Back scrubbing for you in the shower, you know how hard it is to reach all the itchy parts and how nice it is to have a man scrub them for you.

Then there are the other handy things like being there when you get home. Not just being in the house, somewhere, but really being there. Saying hello, offering a freshly made coffee in anticipation of your being there. It would be so nice to have that mechanical man there, not only happy to see you but there to see you. The coffee would just be a bonus.

Of course, mechanical men would not grumble if you asked them to go to the grocery store and pick up a few things for dinner. They would be glad to fix whatever odds and ends needed repairs. Life with a mechanical man would be almost peaceful. When you want to be alone, just turn him off or tell him to put himself away for awhile. He never minds.

I wonder though, about having everything your own way and always that predictable. Could you respect him in the morning? Would you take advantage of him and become on the lazy side yourself? After all, he is there to do all the legwork for you, if that's what you want. Would he get boring? You could have him read the newspaper to stay up with current events but he still won't really understand them. You have to experience life to understand it. But, mechanical men just live each day to serve and be useful. They don't get to feel anger, pain, happiness or sadness. They just keep going, as long as you wind them.

Somewhere in there must be a middle ground. A way to have a man around the house and actually want him there even when he isn't convenient, well mannered or agreeable. Maybe, but the mechanical man would never tell you to "shush" when the TV is on. No, a mechanical man would always put you first and be there to take care of you when you wanted him. That's what fantasy men are especially good at.

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"There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable." --Mark Twain

Gracie, here in Adult BackWash, wrote quite the newsletter (Savvy Sex). It ended with "No matter how they buck, stay in that saddle!" She was not writing about horse riding either. That last comment was my favourite part, it brought all kinds of interesting images and ideas to my mind.

Later, when I was all toasty warm, I started to think... how much do you tell your friends about your lovers?

Would you tell his real penis size? Probably, penis talk is always good for a laugh. In spite of what men seem to think, women are not (usually) looking for huge cocks. I mean, it's not like you have unlimited space in there. Huge cocks are good for erotic stories and fantasies but not real life. No woman wants to ask for stitches "down there". So, get over it penis carrying people of the world.

Not that we want something small either. But, if there is enough for us to grab onto and squeeze you'll do. I don't mean hand squeezing, just in case you got confused.

So, what else would you get chatty about? Would you tell if he is a sloppy kisser? Does he leave you wet in all the wrong places? Or does he do that certain something with his tongue that just makes you wild. Would you share the technique or keep it between you and your lover?

Would you tell if he feel asleep during sex or did something else embarrassing? Would you tell if he got too rough one evening? Would you tell if he had an erotic dream about his Mother? Maybe you would talk about something new he wanted to try and how it did or didn't work out?

Maybe and maybe not. Some things are personal to you and your lover and the snug, intimate little world created between the two of you. At least while it lasts. Once he's gone you can get started on the tell all book!

Seasons Greetings to your friends and lovers,

Laura

What's your secret sensual fantasy? The one you wouldn't consider telling anyone else. The one that makes your panties damp when your mind wanders into it. How does it start...

Yes, maybe you should invest in a battery recharger. Now, go wash your hands before you end up with a sticky keyboard.

I've got a few fantasies. Of course, not all of them are things I'd really like to do or have happen. Like the rape fantasy, it's all about fantasy and knowing it's a fantasy, something to play with someone you trust and lust after.

Among my other fantasies are sex with a robot/ alien. I've seen it called non-human for short. In these fantasies I'm sometimes controlled by the robot and sometimes I'm the one in charge. Both are appealing in different ways. Neither is likely to happen. When I was a young teenager I sneaked a late night movie and first saw Demon Seed with Julie Christie (I think that was her name). The 'robot taking control' thing was food for many of my young fantasies for a long time afterwards. I also developed an early crush on Dr. Kildare. So I had fantasies of being looked after by Dr. Kildare and being controlled by a computer-robot creature.

Then there was the Gor book my Dad left out when I was about fourteen. I liked skimming through for the good parts where the women were taken captive or made to dance and so on. I thought the monologues justifying the Gor philosophy were dull and useless. That style of living would never do for any real modern woman. In the Gor books women were pretty much owned as sex toys. The only free women lived outside of the Gorean society. Not very practical for the modern career woman and super mom.

My most misunderstood fantasy is the Daddy thing. It's not about incest, diapers or anything very pornographic. For me its the idea of being seduced and playing dumb about it. Not quite innocent and not quite eager either. Very much a fantasy of seduction, as so many of mine are. Also, Daddys look after their women, cuddles and caresses. Who would pass that up on a good day? Sometimes I think its nice to surrender yourself and let someone else shoulder everything for awhile. But, I've met almost no men who understand how this works. They all seem to bring it down to the level of porn when it should be tender seduction.

I think they are all about seduction, power and control. It's interesting to think who has the control when you're being seduced. You, who can go along with it, flirt and let yourself be seduced. Or your seducer who probably thinks he has the upper hand. Aren't men silly?

Originally posted to Adult BackWash: Saturday November 23, 2002

Imagine if you will.... a hunky man (muscles, handsome, tall) naked and awaiting your orders. What's your whim? Would you have him clean your windows first or after the bedsport?

Bedsport is a delicious word. It's full of flirting, romping and adventure. Bedsport is daring. Why would you sleep with a man when you could be sporting him.

Back to the naked man. First of all, there is no option of forced feminization. I want a manly man not something in a dress pretending. Besides, a manly man is so much more fun to tease than someone begging for it.

That's why I like humiliation as part of the whole bedsport experience. Ever seen a real manly man blush? It's so sexy, makes me want to reach out and lick him. Just a little taste, maybe a nibble. A caress in that really sensitive area. Just enough so he makes that little sound. A tiny whimper, a gasp, all delicious.

I'd like to tie that manly man up in the door frame. The bed is traditional but it's limited access. Wouldn't you rather see ALL that skin, be able to trail your fingers over it and watch him squirm? Caress any part of him you wanted to. Rake your fingernails over his belly, lightly or a little sharp if you get into marking your territory. Explore and experiment all over his body. After all, it's yours for the taking.

Can you see him? His muscular curves jumping at your lightest touch, barest whisper? Watch his face change as you tease him. Decide what you want to do with him next. Should it be a slap on the butt or a kiss on the lips? Does he like it, or is he just a teensy bit worried that he might not really have any control at all?

An hour later, would he still think bedsport was an amusing word?