1. Sex is an antidote to menstrual pains. It is a lie. Menstrual pain is natural with every female; you can't stop it by having sex.
2. Sex stops wet dream. It is part of every male beginning from puberty to have nocturnal discharge of excess sperm that is stored up in the body. It is normal.
3. It is a lie that boys who keep away from sex will often have stomach or an abdominal problem.
4. Having sex as a teenager prepares you for a good sex life in marriage relationships. It is not true.
5. If you don't have sex as a single, you will find it difficult to deliver babies. It is a lie.
6. There is the need to test the potency or fertility of your partner. A single test can lead you to habitual sex. Avoid it.
7. Romance is the only thing you need without having sex. Romantic acts such as pecking and fondling of the breasts will stimulate you for sex.
8. If you don't have sex, it shows you are not mature. Signs of puberty are enough to tell you that you are ripe for sex. Don't give in to deceit by testing your maturity through untimely sex.
9. Men hate virgins. It is not true. The best gift to offer your husband after wedding is your virginity.
10. It is much easier to de-flower a girl than a married adult. No matter your age, you will still experience pain when you have sex the first time. Keep yourself till marriage.
11. Giving sex to a boy wins his love for you. Sex does not prove love. Prostitutes do have sex without any emotional attachment to their customers.
12. Sex is a good tool to keep your date faithful to your relationship till marriage. It is false.
13. If you shy away from sex, you are not a cute boy or a cute girl. It shows that you are not disciplined as a youngster.
14. Having sex the first time in your virginity does not lead to pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. Who told you that? Don't take foolish risk.
15. Having multiple sex partners is part of life. That's another lie.
16. If a girl or a boy does not demand for sex, she or he does not love you. It is a lie.
17. Sex is a common thing that everybody is doing. It is not true. Some people still keep their chastity.
18. Adequate experience in sex will make the effect of rape less severe on you. It is by no means true.

Wisdom is better than folly. Generally, people may pretend not to appreciate it that there is great value in chastity and fidelity. Don't believe lies. Take note of these lies as you go on onto any dating experience.

Grace Lawrence is a Mom who is passionate about writing on Relationships. She is an experienced counsellor.

Source: 18 Lies About Sex That Every Single Must Know - Loveguides.online

Too bad blind dates don't come to your door, delivered like something great you sent yourself from Amazon. Online shopping, something I didn't think I would become addicted to, was my retail therapy. Other than having your treasure arrive like a present, the best thing about it is still the window shopping. I do like getting a bargain but the chase, the planning, the research and then the discovery of that one, just right, exceptional item!

I wasn't a fool though. I knew who paid that credit card each month. Me. I could be careful and still buy stuff. The trick was to make sure it really was something I really did need. Most of the time I was successful that way. Books, print books, tended to be my downfall.

A good book is a good companion. Like that blind date but, in this case, he can hold up his end of the conversation. Of course, only my lips were moving. …more

Intolerance is black. Not black and white and no room at all for shades of grey. Intolerance is a dictatorship.

To me it seems intolerance has become more important than respect, love or anything else. If you read the intolerance manual you would believe it was my generation and those before us who were intolerant, bigots, and so on. But, that isn't true. We may have been racist, but we were not intolerant. We had black, white, shades of grey, men, women, old and young.

Now there is just one way everything is allowed to be and everyone must stick to the right rules. I see only black, there can be no exception. Any feelings or thoughts (and certainly any actions!) to the contrary will not be tolerated. Even those you love will choose the rules over you. Don't get in the way, don't have any other opinion and don't complain.

Writing this, this morning, I wonder how people have gotten this way.

I have tolerance. I'm sad, I'm angry and I'm disappointed but I am not throwing rocks at anyone. I am not insisting on having my way or ignoring someone else who does not agree with me. I am tolerating someone who ignored my beliefs, my feelings and everything I am. I am not throwing anyone out, or under a bus. I am not screaming, hurting someone else, or insisting on a boycott. I am not using social media to gather others to my witch hunt.

I am of the generation who believe in human rights, including the human right to be human. Being human means everyone is entitled to be imperfect. Being human I expect people to not have all the same thoughts, feelings, culture or experiences. I like to explore other cultures and experiences. I like knowing there are people who disagree with me but listen to how I think and care enough to tolerate me when I feel or think differently.

You have to be entitled to be so firmly intolerant.

Today people have a feeling of entitlement they say. I have seen this in the younger generation, but not just there. The feeling of entitlement is part of the blackness of intolerance. I think it backs it up, keeps it from letting in any of those other colours. You have to be entitled in order to be so firmly intolerant.

Where did we lose the idea that it is ok to say no and have that respected? Of course, you can say no to the acceptable things: rape, bullying, racism, homophobia and transphobia. To a much smaller extent you can still say no to religious discrimination and a few other, older and less popular in the media discriminations we are still allowed to say no to. Racism is not tolerated, if you are black. If you are any other race, culture or colour, you will need to have tolerance. I'm not sure why. Why are some causes supported so fervently and others almost forgotten and ignored? Why do only some people matter?

We have lost the right to respectfully disagree.

I wish people could remember, or care, or respect the fact that we do not all agree. We do not all have to agree. But, with intolerance there is no right to respectfully disagree. I respectfully disagreed but I was not respectfully tolerated, instead I faced the intolerance and being family, years of love, respect and everything else could not overcome the intolerance which is held up like a solid, black wall, higher and thicker than any human being can ever hope to come across, or around.

I am sad and sad is grey, not black.

--Comment from the original post.

2012/04/03 at 7:49 pm Arlee Bird tossingitout.blogspot.com

A phobia is actually a psychological disorder. Many groups now use the term to slur anyone who disagrees with them. It’s a dilution of words and terminology that is not a very good use of language. Kind of in a 1984 sort of way.

You are a smart lady. And I mean that as in intelligent.

Lee Places I Remember Wrote By Rote An A to Z Co-host blog

Me: The word homophobia has annoyed me from the start. It’s claiming everyone who disagrees with homosexuality is afraid of it. Very prejudgmental.

Years ago I read a very sexy story about a dolphin having sex with a female human. The dolphin pushed her into it. But it wasn't aggressive, just persistent and then her own curiosity took her the rest of the way. (She didn't leave or stop coming back). I don't remember details but it was something about dolphins who had been kept for research.

I know we are all supposed to think human/ animal sex is bad. But, it was such a short time ago that other types of sex and sexuality were bad and I start to wonder... how far will it go? How long will it be before the media convinces people that sex with animals (and children) is acceptable. I'm not even typing a question mark there because I think it is likely.

Quite likely it will start with robot animals and children. After all, they aren't real. So to use an inanimate object for your pleasure should be just fine, right? Not really different from using any common sex toy you could buy online.

Bypassing all the rules and regulations and ethics and all that political correctness we pretend to hold so highly...

Would sex with a robot animal turn you on? Would you watch or read about robot animals having sex or even forcing/ being forced into sexual situations?

No need to leave a comment. Just keep it to yourself. Be honest when no one's looking.

To be clear for those who find this shocking - I'm not in favour of sex with real animals or children. No matter what the pedophiles say, it is not consensual when it involves a minor or other creature who can not clearly and completely communicate. Or, has the maturity to understand what is being asked/ acted upon.

But, where does that leave robots... Something for your consideration.

Originally posted to Sex Kitten.net.

Why does he look so unhappy when he’s getting what he wants? Too much of the male submission art is spoiled (for me) due to his sulky, poor-me attitude.

Maybe it’s part of the package for some men. They want to feel mistreated so they can think of her as the bitch, the mean one. But, the fact is the FemDom fantasy is directed by the men. Especially in this image with her huge boobs and the lack of a wedding dress. It’s one thing for him to be nude and chained up but… what real woman would go to her wedding like that! (Unless it was a nudist themed wedding – and how many of those have you been invited to?)

I like images which show the man is valued and he knows it. I like things to be a two way exchange, not focused on him and leaving her wishing she had brought something to knit while she reads his script. The Domme needs to be involved, personally and liking it. Otherwise, she’s the one who will be in the image with the hangdog, bored, and sulky attitude.