A really well behaved man (even without the chains) is kind of sexy.

Fighting Slave Rule 1: Fighting slave's shall ask for entry into Kasra in the fllowing or similar manner: "Drawing to His knees, the fighting slave faces the place where the Homestone lays.Raising well muscled arms high in salute, before placing his palms flat to the tiles... fingers widely splayed, His deep masculine voice rings out...may (name of fighting slave) enter the city of Kasra?"

Fighting Slave Rule 2: Fighting Slave's shall Greet in the following fashion: To the Khan and their Master / Misress a fighting Slave shall Greet in this Fashion - to the Khan - "Tal, Khan and Master. (and any additional greetings as appropriate)" - to their Master / Mistress "Tal, my Master / Mistress, (and any additional greetings as appropriate)"
To all Free fighting slave's shall Greet in this way - "Greetings Master / Mistress {Name}, (and any additional greetings as appropriate)"

Fighting Slave Rule 3: After being granted entry into Kasra, fighting slave's shall greet in this order: The Khan, The Ubara, First Sword, Second Sword, your Master / Mistress, all Free Men of Kasra, All Free Women of Kasra, all Free Visitor's / Guest's (Master's, then Mistresses), any you are unsure of regardless of sex, and then slaves, who are always greeted last, and may be greeted as a group.

Fighting Slave's do not use third person greeting's, a fighting slave's greeting should look something like this - "Greetings Master {Name} I hope this day has been good for you?" Fighting slave's shall also bow, slightly, to the Free they are Greeting before Greeting them.

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How to Dom with Light Bondage

• Restraints
• Sensual Deprivation
• Discipline
• Safety

Restraints

Restraints are rope, cuffs, etc. Start with something you can easily work with, safely. You want your submissive to be able to get out of the bondage quickly if things suddenly become too intense. Also, you don't want to start out making a lot of fancy knots then discover you can't get them all undone again. Any restraint used must be tested before you start using it as bondage.

Restraints don't have to be physical. Mental bondage is a lovely thing and great for beginners. You have the power to control your submissive - knowing his bondage is not enforced by anything but his own decision to obey. There is more power in a submissive obedient by choice rather than ropes, chains, leather, etc.

Sensual Deprivation

Sensual deprivation is an element of bondage. Blindfolds are less complicated than some methods which include a full hood over the head. Also, a blindfold is simple for beginners to use and experiment with. Don't take away more than one of the five senses at a time (for a beginner in bondage). Keep it fun rather than making them go from nervous and uncertain to actually being afraid.

Think of sensual deprivation as the element of surprise. Use it to tease and give your submissive less control. Build suspense and anticipation. While using a blindfold, narrate everything you are doing or plan to do. While they are in restraints you have taken away their ability to use their hands. A blindfold limits what they can see so they strain a little to use the senses they have left. Make sure you use as many senses as you can when you deprive them of one, or more.

Discipline

Discipline includes spanking but is not limited to just that. Discipline can be a punishment. Discipline can be a set of rules or standards to be kept by the submissive. There is a lot you can do with discipline as mental and physical bondage.

You may have heard of domestic discipline. Spanking is usually included with this. The submissive is treated like a child or dog being trained. They are expected to perform tasks, mainly house cleaning. They may be expected to wear aprons.

The Gor books by John Norman inspired another branch of kinkiness which follows a strict discipline and set or orders. Lesser known are the books by Sharon Green who wrote a female Dom series set on other planets involving men and women being taken from Earth. I especially like her books myself.

Safety

Safety matters. I'm not making it first on my list but it should always be part of your considerations and planning. Anything you bring into play during your bondage should be tested out and practiced with. You don't want to struggle with toys, tools or feel incompetent in the heat of the moment when you are both wound up.

Safety includes some time afterwards, to wind down, get feedback and care for your submissive: aftercare. Don't skip aftercare. This time is good for the submissive to feel cared for, literally. The Dom also needs this time to wind down, release emotions and reconnect with their partner.

Write a Dirty Story

Many men get off on porn, ladies on erotica—but we all love a bit of scintillation. Make it more personal with a service like Hoochy Mail Service, suggests Denise Beauregard, owner of Urban Intima Inc., an online intimate apparel retailer.

Hoochy mail is a free online erotic mail service that allows users to customize erotic stories written by the sender to the recipient. They can be romantic, sexy, or off the wall. If you were to send this to your significant other (his personal email only please, no need to peak an employers' curiosity) well, let's just day this move can make a man come straight the hell home.

12 Ways To Bring The Sexy Back To Your Relationship | YourTango.

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The real question is - How do Wookies type with all that hair on their fingers? Once you get past that go ahead and read the questions and answers Kilted Wookie posted for this distinguished award in blogging neatness. To follow are the questions I answered when it was my turn and last - the questions and nominees I've passed this award along to.

1. How did you come across your blogging persona?
2. What inspired you to write your first blog?
3. What is your greatest unfulfilled fantasy/dream?
4. What has blogging taught you about yourself?
5. How many "real life" people know you are a blogger and how did it make you feel when you discovered they knew?
6. Lights on or off?
7. What do you normally wear in bed?

Source: A Real Neat Blog? | A Kilted Wookie Writes...

How did you come across your blogging persona?

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