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Why does he look so unhappy when he’s getting what he wants? Too much of the male submission art is spoiled (for me) due to his sulky, poor-me attitude.

Maybe it’s part of the package for some men. They want to feel mistreated so they can think of her as the bitch, the mean one. But, the fact is the FemDom fantasy is directed by the men. Especially in this image with her huge boobs and the lack of a wedding dress. It’s one thing for him to be nude and chained up but… what real woman would go to her wedding like that! (Unless it was a nudist themed wedding – and how many of those have you been invited to?)

I like images which show the man is valued and he knows it. I like things to be a two way exchange, not focused on him and leaving her wishing she had brought something to knit while she reads his script. The Domme needs to be involved, personally and liking it. Otherwise, she’s the one who will be in the image with the hangdog, bored, and sulky attitude.

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You want to impress a woman… ?

Get practical in a romantic, sexy way with a luxurious set of bed sheets.

This isn’t something you do for your first date or a woman you hardly know. That would be too intimate. Bedding is very intimate, it’s where you live when you’re asleep or not feeling well or hiding away from the world awhile.

These sheets are boldly colourful and soft to the touch. Not every woman (or man) would like these sheets. I love them! I love the colours and the softness of cotton and flannel sheets. My sheets are all soft cotton or flannel. Getting into bed is a pleasure even when I’m too tired to notice, I still notice how nice it is to get into bed.

Sheet sets are not cheap. If you spend too little you will get what you paid for. Cheap sheets can be pilly, tear after being in the wash a few times or get kind of starchy feeling after the first few washes. Not nice. Shop at a good store. Here in Canada The Hudson’s Bay store is still one of the higher quality stores (the antidote to WalMart). If you don’t know about fabric and bedding talk to the sales people at the store. Get advice, get the facts and make a good decision before you buy.

Pick a great colour. Avoid patterns, only because people can be much pickier when patterns are involved. Plain (solid colour) sheets are less complicated and make a bolder statement too. Of course, I make an exception for polka dots, but not every woman/ man does.

I was reading @Slutty Girl Problems on Twitter and thought... What about #DommeGirlProblems? So I'm starting with a few ideas to see where it goes.

• I left him gagged an extra hour while I read a chapter of my book. Shouldn't I feel guilty? #DommeGirlProblems
• Man drool on the new shoes I let him buy me! #DommeGirlProblems
• This time I really did lose the key... can I just pretend I'm faking it again? #DommeGirlProblems
• I'm too tired to spank him tonight. Why can't he just spank himself? #DommeGirlProblems
• I have to go home early... I left my husband in his cage. #DommeGirlProblems
• People don't understand, it's not about sex, it's about power. #DommeGirlProblems
• Men ask and beg to serve me then tell me what they want me to do for them. #DommeGirlProblems
• Coming up with punishment ideas he actually won't enjoy. #DommeGirlProblems
• Trying fetishes and kinky ideas to please him. #DommeGirlProblems
• Being expected to perform to his schedule because he wants to serve me. #DommeGirlProblems
• High heels, tight clothes and toys are expensive and not what I really want. #DommeGirlProblems
• Really cleaning up after his idea of cleaning for his pleasure. #DommeGirlProblems
• Being thought cruel by others and being told I'm not cruel enough by him. #DommeGirlProblems
• Playing along, performing, finishing the scene long after I've lost any real interest in what I'm doing. #DommeGirlProblems
• Being told I didn't do it all like a real FemDom as seen in porn online. #DommeGirlProblems

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What a funny joke it would be to tell your little submissive he can’t masturbate again until May. But, during that month he can masturbate each of the 31 days.

Then I would add the details that it’s actually writing about masturbation, not the act itself. He must write about masturbating for 31 days and his reward… Well, I’d have to think about that.

The Merry Month of Masturbation is an event started by a group of writers on LiveJournal.

6. Be a Force To Be Reckoned With

Have you ever noticed how men find you sexy when you’re a little angry, annoyed or pissed off? Or when you’re making a very clear point and cleverly putting them in their place without putting them down? This tactic is to be used with absolute caution. No point sparking and argument for the sake of it but well worth taking note of and using to your advantage when your man is in need of a little disciplining.

Source: How To Be Sexy - Tap In To Your Inner Sex Appeal With these Tips