Is it surprising that a Domme has fantasies where she isn't in charge? I don't think so. We are all one human being, with a balance of things and feelings and beliefs, which make us a whole. If I could find an ideal man he would have a bit of a twisted side and share some of my fantasies, or at least understand - or at the very least take a week long business trip so I can enjoy my fantasies without explaining anything.

I was having coffee and feeling kind of lazy and though I needed to push myself out of the chair and into unloading the dishwasher, I stalled. One of the Bourne Identity movies came on (I don't even know which one from the series). At some point it shows a hand printed note that starts with the headline: "Who Was I?" in bold.

That got me thinking... if you knew you were going to forget who you are in the future, what would you leave in a note to tell yourself who you are? Would you tell the truth about everything? What would you include or exclude in the note? What would you write first, it might not be your name? What would really tell you about who you are?

Put the sound of bird chatter in your mind. If you haven't heard them in awhile find an audio file online, there's bound to be at least one on YouTube. Now write. What does the sound of the birds bring to your mind? I think it would be really interesting to know what each person writes with the sound of birds chattering in the background.

We took Zack (my favourite nephew) out to dinner. His fortune said:

"An optimist is always able to see the bright side of other people's troubles."

Pretty clever for something that came out of a fortune cookie.

How do you read this fortune cookie saying? It can be seen as optimists enjoy other people's troubles. Or, it could be seen as optimists can find something good in anything. Are there other ways you can read something else into it?

In writing we try to make our meaning clear. But, at times something we intended to be clear can have other meanings read into it. Take a look at some sentences you have written. Can you find any that could have muddled or different meanings?

Jane Chin posted on Empire Avenue:

What One word describes why you write?

I thought of assorted words and came up with - "energy". Writing is a flow of give and take of energy. It brings me energy and takes it away as well. But the energy it brings is fresh and new. While the energy it takes is freely given and ready to be consumed.

What one word would you pick? It would be interesting to come up with one word for why you write everyday. Likely you would have a lot of different words after awhile.